tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post7021822860645276168..comments2023-02-28T00:35:41.343-08:00Comments on Mischief Mostly Managed: The No-Pardon ZoneMadelinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-53429081770540661442018-01-10T13:12:01.052-08:002018-01-10T13:12:01.052-08:00Hello! Thanks for stopping by, I can absolutely re...Hello! Thanks for stopping by, I can absolutely relate to how you feel about the severity and needing to feel something. It's just how it works for some of us.Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-16385916927787277662018-01-10T13:10:50.513-08:002018-01-10T13:10:50.513-08:00Very grateful! I am sure what works for us will co...Very grateful! I am sure what works for us will continue to evolve, I never imagined it would look like this when we started. You're right that it is life changing, far beyond the moments of spanking.Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-58723818400104510732018-01-10T13:09:30.459-08:002018-01-10T13:09:30.459-08:00I don't begin to understand how it all works e...I don't begin to understand how it all works either, but it does! Thanks for your kind comment, I wish I had more time to write here.Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-41404934892026668952018-01-10T13:08:45.436-08:002018-01-10T13:08:45.436-08:00Thanks Roz, Happy New Year!Thanks Roz, Happy New Year!Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-90414358760402782612018-01-10T13:08:08.625-08:002018-01-10T13:08:08.625-08:00The best sleep ever!! The best sleep ever!! Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-86080806079660356512018-01-10T13:07:05.411-08:002018-01-10T13:07:05.411-08:00I've seen that trend too! Submissives don'...I've seen that trend too! Submissives don't seem to complain when the HOH doesn't let things go. I love that motto "When in doubt, spank!" :)Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-24446172759784146712018-01-10T13:05:33.462-08:002018-01-10T13:05:33.462-08:00Hello! We can't be reminded often enough to co...Hello! We can't be reminded often enough to communicate, can we? It makes all the difference as we find our way. For now, this works but in another season, or another year, it could look very different.Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00134743826550957695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-67487352416889573692017-12-31T14:07:22.604-08:002017-12-31T14:07:22.604-08:00Loved this post. I loved how honest it is. And y...Loved this post. I loved how honest it is. And yes, if we only could talk to our early day selves in this lifestyle. :)<br /><br />I too find that I am sad if I don't feel the spanking the next day. To get to that point, I find the pain unbearable in the moment, and still cannot figure out why if I wish with all my heart that it was just over, that I'm sad if I know it ended too soon. I may never fully understand that about myself. But maybe someday. :)<br /><br />Thank you for writing this. I am just looking over some of your posts, I think for the first time, and am enjoying them. Thank you.EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-69490779835336882592017-12-16T09:09:38.546-08:002017-12-16T09:09:38.546-08:00Hi Madeline, :) I found your post to be very well ...Hi Madeline, :) I found your post to be very well thought out, and well written. "Be careful what you wish for," comes to mind here. I agree with you- each couple, over time, experience, and very open communication, arrives at what works out just right for them.<br /><br />For us, ttwd incorporates a great deal of fun. From time to time, when it is needed, a more serious spanking ensues, and while it may not necessarily last all that long, it leaves within its wake, a husband and wife, who are moving forward, in sync with one another, versus moving apart. I'm glad that I brought it to the table- though not always in a spanking moment! It has changed our lives, and strengthened our love beyond anything that I could have imagined. Bring it on! Though the fun stuff is always ways more... fun! As Ella said above, "I am grateful"! Many hugs,<br /><br /><3 KatieKatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-16600131782016112352017-12-13T06:53:31.520-08:002017-12-13T06:53:31.520-08:00This is quite the post, Madeline. It could be a p...This is quite the post, Madeline. It could be a primer for those aspiring to have a ttwd relationship. Yep, we all make the journey a little differently, but it is so worth the effort. <br /><br />Sam had Mr. Paddle out yesterday for a dose of "let me improve your mood," and my head is back on straight for sure. I will never understand how that works so well. But I am grateful.<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-20488820354176782792017-12-12T08:38:46.948-08:002017-12-12T08:38:46.948-08:00Very thoughtful post.
--BakerVery thoughtful post.<br /><br />--BakerBakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16654399899358402634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-80039030013597873002017-12-11T23:48:55.848-08:002017-12-11T23:48:55.848-08:00Hi Madeline, this is a great post, you explain the...Hi Madeline, this is a great post, you explain the need to be held accountable and the feelings and emotions, especially post spanking so well.<br /><br />Hugs <br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-81753128576040840862017-12-11T05:50:40.257-08:002017-12-11T05:50:40.257-08:00Oh and yes the post spanking 'nap' is the ...Oh and yes the post spanking 'nap' is the greatest nap EVER!!!!!williehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-21844458162249716722017-12-11T05:47:04.578-08:002017-12-11T05:47:04.578-08:00Spankings here are certainly NOT blissful either! ...Spankings here are certainly NOT blissful either! LOL. Barney's 'favourite' is a cane (mostly because it is quiet, but he also 'jokes' that it is the implement that delivers the most impact with the least amount of work on his part).<br /><br />I know you wrote this a long time ago, but THIS part stood out to me as something so many women have said and felt: " making rules he didn't enforce left me feeling neglected and crazy. Letting things slide was not him being a nice guy" I think it is very difficult for many HOHs to grasp the latter part of that statement, especially when life is challenging. Years ago a friend told Barney, " When in doubt, spank." He also went on to tell him that " you think you are doing her a favour by letting things go-trust me you are not". Of course these things are often easier said than done.<br /><br />Glad to hear your hubby understands the value of not letting you off the hook!<br /><br />williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162844802550958686.post-39354104958736217782017-12-10T18:14:43.454-08:002017-12-10T18:14:43.454-08:00Madeline,
Your post took my breath away in its tru...Madeline,<br />Your post took my breath away in its truth. Make sure you are communicating........ we seldom use implements, but I am spanked hard and long with lots of answering. WE have found our way in the opposite direction and it suits us. Jack threatens with talk of the paddle, but uses his hand. It works for us. I am glad you have returned. Take care,<br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com